Departure Check List
x Gather required documents
x Donate, sell, or pitch EVERYTHING (almost)
x Obtain residency visa
x Say “Goodbye” to family, friends, places, and everything that means home
The list is short, but its impact is huge. People have referred to the process we’ve recently completed as “downsizing.” The tonnage of stuff donated to Goodwill makes that term seem inadequate. After 44 years of marriage, our material possessions fit into four suitcases and two carry-on bags. For the first time ever, we don’t own a car. It’s simultaneously freeing and frightening.
We leave in three days. Both of us are awed by the kindness our friends have shown to get us to this point. Pam and Jim hosted a big Thanksgiving feast for the Darcy family after our estate sale left us with no chairs, pots, or silverware. Debbie and Art opened their beautiful home to us after we left our apartment. From there we were able to pass 10 hectic days of final errands without a worry. Mike and Frieda gave us unlimited use of their car during our transition. Wendy, Lisa, and Neal provided professional cleaning of our apartment after we moved out. Bobbie graciously agreed to manage our mail when we leave. Countless friends have feted us and sent us on our way with hearts overflowing. In spite of being on the brink of fulfilling a life-long dream of living overseas, we are sad to go.